Session Start: Fri Feb 26 01:42:54 2010
Session Ident: Iris
01[01:42] <AshleyAshes> Could you please not do that?
01[01:44] <AshleyAshes> Can we just please leave everything as it is and not stir up additional drama?
[01:45] <Iris> Thats just nailing a coffine shut, not drama
01[01:45] <AshleyAshes> You're a fucking asshole
[01:46] <Iris> The channel's pretty much dead, let it lie. I was just making sure the lid was well nailed down
01[01:46] <AshleyAshes> Go to hell. You're instigating and you fucking know it.
01[01:48] <AshleyAshes> You know this stirs up painful emotions in me, so leave everything the hell alone for now. There's been ENOUGH fucking drama.
01[01:48] <AshleyAshes> Okay? PLEASE,
01[01:50] <AshleyAshes> And I want to say one more thing. You know damn well this stirs up shit and you did it anyway. Don't tell me that you're tired of this drama, cause you wouldn't even let that bit wait. But I'm not going to drag it into any channel, because I -am- done with this drama. I'll keep my issues quietly between you and me for everyone's sake and particularly Collies.
[01:50] <Iris> I'm putting the last bullet into a almost dead body
[01:51] <Iris> Let that channel die in peace.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> You left the channel to me.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> Because it hurts to see it go, and at least I can quietly remember it.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> ANd hurting me causes conflict and drama.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> You are INSTIGATING.
01[01:54] <AshleyAshes> You're in that mode right now, where you surrender your empathy and will glreefully hurt people. Please stop.
01[01:55] <AshleyAshes> If you fucking care at all, after seeing how Collie reacted to what, he seemingly misinterpruted but still hurt him deeply, you'd just leave everything the hell alone for a while.
01[01:55] <AshleyAshes> God it?
[01:55] <Iris> No Ashes. This is simply killing a bleeding, suffering dog. I really don't care what the dead channel means to you, it's dead, and dead by op vote.
[01:56] <Iris> As soon as possible I will assure it's in it's grave.
01[01:56] <AshleyAshes> Why?
[01:57] <Iris> We've moved on.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> The move on and leave it alone.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> If you have honestly moved on, you wouldn't be concerned about this.
[01:57] <Iris> I prefer things that were decided to let die be dead.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> You decided to kill it without even getting everyone's opinions.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> You didn't even ask Collie his opinion and did it anyway
[01:58] <Iris> Actually I did.
01[01:58] <AshleyAshes> He said he had no idea what was happening and thought it was overkill
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> I'm going to be 100% honest with you. I am tired of this drama, I am physically exhausted from this drama. I wanted it to end today. You doing this makes it hurt, it makes me angry, it makes me emotional and it continues this drama. You said it hurt when I would ignore your opinions on things when you were genuinely trying to help me. I was sorry for that.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> Please stop trying to hurt me.
[02:00] <Iris> I'm not aiming to hurt you.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> And nither did I.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> BUt you know what
[02:00] <Iris> All you need to do is let go of a dead object.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> YOU got hurt ANYWAY
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> You got ANGRY
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> And I got angry back and it ALL went to shit
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> But now you KNOW it hurts me and you continue so you have no god damned excuse
01[02:01] <AshleyAshes> Except that I will not ignore your opinions when you are genuinely trying to give advise for my sake because I am sorry for hurting you.
01[02:01] <AshleyAshes> And I Do not repeat that hurting you, because I know I did it.
01[02:02] <AshleyAshes> This does hurt me and it hurts me deeply, seeing you try to kill of one of few genuinely valued and warm memories of something I have.
01[02:02] <AshleyAshes> Do you understand?
01[02:03] <AshleyAshes> I am communicating this to you as clearly as I possibly can, because failure to communicate and express how people were hurting each other incidently is how we got here in the fucking first place.
01[02:03] <AshleyAshes> I do not want this to repeat itself YET AGIAN.
01[02:03] <AshleyAshes> Please tell me that you feel the same way.
01[02:05] <AshleyAshes> Two nights ago, I put a lot of effort into understanding your position because I genuinely wanted to and I genuinely felt bad for hurting you as I came to understand. My disreguarding your opinions, without even a real counter-arguement, devalued you. It upset you.
01[02:08] <AshleyAshes> Now, I have explained my perspective and how you are hurting me very clear. I have done so to prevent future conflict because I have learned from the last 2+ weeks of stupidity. Can you please respond and give me the same respect that I have tried to show you here by explaining my position?
[02:11] <Iris> I find it funny, that you value is silly channel name over the people in it/were in it, and you did just pretty much state as much. Please change the topic of it to the channel being dead and a redirect, we're moving on and I'd rather atleast limit my reasons to forcefully remove that ghost.
01[02:11] <AshleyAshes> I value the memories it leaves me with.
01[02:12] <AshleyAshes> Also there's an active conversation going on in there and it has been since you tried to ban everyone.
01[02:12] <AshleyAshes> You're welcome to join it.
01[02:13] <AshleyAshes> You may have moved on, but there is a conversation there, so not everyone has. Respect that.
01[02:23] <AshleyAshes> And maybe I am 'silly'. But I'd appreciate it if you didn't look down on me for the objects that give me my valued memories.
01[02:23] <AshleyAshes> I don't have much else Iris.
Session Close: Fri Feb 26 02:35:15 2010
Session Ident: Iris
01[01:42] <AshleyAshes> Could you please not do that?
01[01:44] <AshleyAshes> Can we just please leave everything as it is and not stir up additional drama?
[01:45] <Iris> Thats just nailing a coffine shut, not drama
01[01:45] <AshleyAshes> You're a fucking asshole
[01:46] <Iris> The channel's pretty much dead, let it lie. I was just making sure the lid was well nailed down
01[01:46] <AshleyAshes> Go to hell. You're instigating and you fucking know it.
01[01:48] <AshleyAshes> You know this stirs up painful emotions in me, so leave everything the hell alone for now. There's been ENOUGH fucking drama.
01[01:48] <AshleyAshes> Okay? PLEASE,
01[01:50] <AshleyAshes> And I want to say one more thing. You know damn well this stirs up shit and you did it anyway. Don't tell me that you're tired of this drama, cause you wouldn't even let that bit wait. But I'm not going to drag it into any channel, because I -am- done with this drama. I'll keep my issues quietly between you and me for everyone's sake and particularly Collies.
[01:50] <Iris> I'm putting the last bullet into a almost dead body
[01:51] <Iris> Let that channel die in peace.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> You left the channel to me.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> Because it hurts to see it go, and at least I can quietly remember it.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> ANd hurting me causes conflict and drama.
01[01:51] <AshleyAshes> You are INSTIGATING.
01[01:54] <AshleyAshes> You're in that mode right now, where you surrender your empathy and will glreefully hurt people. Please stop.
01[01:55] <AshleyAshes> If you fucking care at all, after seeing how Collie reacted to what, he seemingly misinterpruted but still hurt him deeply, you'd just leave everything the hell alone for a while.
01[01:55] <AshleyAshes> God it?
[01:55] <Iris> No Ashes. This is simply killing a bleeding, suffering dog. I really don't care what the dead channel means to you, it's dead, and dead by op vote.
[01:56] <Iris> As soon as possible I will assure it's in it's grave.
01[01:56] <AshleyAshes> Why?
[01:57] <Iris> We've moved on.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> The move on and leave it alone.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> If you have honestly moved on, you wouldn't be concerned about this.
[01:57] <Iris> I prefer things that were decided to let die be dead.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> You decided to kill it without even getting everyone's opinions.
01[01:57] <AshleyAshes> You didn't even ask Collie his opinion and did it anyway
[01:58] <Iris> Actually I did.
01[01:58] <AshleyAshes> He said he had no idea what was happening and thought it was overkill
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> I'm going to be 100% honest with you. I am tired of this drama, I am physically exhausted from this drama. I wanted it to end today. You doing this makes it hurt, it makes me angry, it makes me emotional and it continues this drama. You said it hurt when I would ignore your opinions on things when you were genuinely trying to help me. I was sorry for that.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> Please stop trying to hurt me.
[02:00] <Iris> I'm not aiming to hurt you.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> And nither did I.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> BUt you know what
[02:00] <Iris> All you need to do is let go of a dead object.
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> YOU got hurt ANYWAY
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> You got ANGRY
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> And I got angry back and it ALL went to shit
01[02:00] <AshleyAshes> But now you KNOW it hurts me and you continue so you have no god damned excuse
01[02:01] <AshleyAshes> Except that I will not ignore your opinions when you are genuinely trying to give advise for my sake because I am sorry for hurting you.
01[02:01] <AshleyAshes> And I Do not repeat that hurting you, because I know I did it.
01[02:02] <AshleyAshes> This does hurt me and it hurts me deeply, seeing you try to kill of one of few genuinely valued and warm memories of something I have.
01[02:02] <AshleyAshes> Do you understand?
01[02:03] <AshleyAshes> I am communicating this to you as clearly as I possibly can, because failure to communicate and express how people were hurting each other incidently is how we got here in the fucking first place.
01[02:03] <AshleyAshes> I do not want this to repeat itself YET AGIAN.
01[02:03] <AshleyAshes> Please tell me that you feel the same way.
01[02:05] <AshleyAshes> Two nights ago, I put a lot of effort into understanding your position because I genuinely wanted to and I genuinely felt bad for hurting you as I came to understand. My disreguarding your opinions, without even a real counter-arguement, devalued you. It upset you.
01[02:08] <AshleyAshes> Now, I have explained my perspective and how you are hurting me very clear. I have done so to prevent future conflict because I have learned from the last 2+ weeks of stupidity. Can you please respond and give me the same respect that I have tried to show you here by explaining my position?
[02:11] <Iris> I find it funny, that you value is silly channel name over the people in it/were in it, and you did just pretty much state as much. Please change the topic of it to the channel being dead and a redirect, we're moving on and I'd rather atleast limit my reasons to forcefully remove that ghost.
01[02:11] <AshleyAshes> I value the memories it leaves me with.
01[02:12] <AshleyAshes> Also there's an active conversation going on in there and it has been since you tried to ban everyone.
01[02:12] <AshleyAshes> You're welcome to join it.
01[02:13] <AshleyAshes> You may have moved on, but there is a conversation there, so not everyone has. Respect that.
01[02:23] <AshleyAshes> And maybe I am 'silly'. But I'd appreciate it if you didn't look down on me for the objects that give me my valued memories.
01[02:23] <AshleyAshes> I don't have much else Iris.
Session Close: Fri Feb 26 02:35:15 2010